Birth mother #3 still hasn't visited. The weather here has been really cold so it's hard to get her to come up to my house. Also she was in the city for a bit and just got back.
There is a second birth mother that might place... Birth mom #4. Her relationship with her boyfriend/baby's father is very bad... He isn't there for her and their infant and highly unlikely to be there for this one. Her youngest is only a few months old. We have been talking a lot and I'm hopeful she will place. She knows how much I want this baby and how hard it would be for her to raise it. She is not drinking or smoking and is going to her prenatal visits so this baby would be healthier than the other one. Plus her communication is clearly much better. She is currently in the city so it is easier to get her to do the paperwork.
My biggest concern is with the birth father. I'm worried about how he will react to her wanting to place. It will all work out in the end though.
Super excited that I have a communicating possible birth mom and possibly a baby!!!
I am 30, single, vegan, and been on my journey to becoming a single mother since 2013. I have struggled with infertility and I am now on the path to international adoption of a little girl with Down syndrome. Come join me on my journey to becoming a mother!